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All by myself

Mon Feb 28, 2011 23:59 (UTC -5)

It was December 22, and I was CouchSurfing in St. Petersburg, Russia. My host had four other CouchSurfers over, and today they were all leaving. And since my host was busy studying for exams, I could go out by myself.

It may sound weird, but it didn’t occur to me till I was on the plane that I was going to a foreign country by myself. A year and a half ago, when I set off for Europe, the idea was unthinkable: I flew there with three friends and wanted at least to stick with Andy as much as possible. But now I remember that over the course of the summer, it happened that I was spending less and less time with him and more time traveling by myself. In fact, I completed the last leg of the trip alone. So I guess I actually was mentally prepared for this.

One thing I wasn’t quite as prepared for was the sheer amount of clothes you have to wear when it’s all snowy outside. Going outside quickly becomes an ordeal. Over my regular clothes, I wore at least one extra shirt, a sweater, a jacket, a scarf, gloves, and a hat, not to mention socks and boots I had gotten just for the trip.

So it took me a little while to make my way out that day, and when I finally did, I was hungry. Kate had recommended some good places to eat. I picked the one that was closest to the place where I was staying. It was a buffet-style restaurant facing Uprising Square. After barely managing to communicate with the people who worked there, I sat and ate, humiliated, hoping no one would try to talk to me. Right there I said to myself that I’d never again go to a country where I couldn’t speak the language. We’ll see how long that lasts.

I kept going down Nevsky Prospect, or however I’m choosing to transliterate it today, and the thoroughfare already seemed familiar to me after yesterday’s romp around the city. I made sure to look out for large icicles, one of the many safety and/or health hazards I had been warned about before leaving on my trip. The sidewalks, of course, were also icy. The day before, I had almost slipped a few times, and I had a hard time sleeping that night because I kept imagining myself walking, walking, walking… and slipping.

Now, to gain traction, I was twisting my legs a little more than usual as my feet touched the ground. I probably looked pretty ridiculous, but it kept me from slipping. But all that twisting made my left knee start to hurt. Quickly. In fact, it kept bothering me for weeks afterward, especially walking up stairs, and I was convinced that I was now the lifetime owner of a bum knee.

I’m fine now, but anyway, that’s not the point. I was walking down Nevsky, and since I was by myself, I was able to stop and take a look at some of St. Petersburg’s many frozen canals. From one bridge is a fantastic view of the Church of the Savior on Blood:

Church of the Savior on Blood

Finally, I got to my destination: the Winter Palace, the main residence of the State Hermitage Museum, one of the finest museums in the world, probably.

Palace Square

I love art museums, and since I was out by myself, nobody could stop me from spending as much time there as I wanted.

I made my way to the entrance, and at the ticket desk, I was somehow able to express my desire for a student ticket: “Один… университет”. Then, after checking my coat, I spent a few hours walking around, trying to cover as much as I could. About halfway through, I became exhausted, but I knew I knew I had to keep going since it was a rare opportunity to see some fantastic artwork.

Much of the museum was dedicated to classic art, or whatever they call the old stuff. A lot of famous artists were represented. There were a lot of works by Rubens, a sculpture by Michelangelo, and even a painting by Leonardo. On the higher floors were works by more recent artists like Van Gogh, Renoir, Monet, and Matisse. I was pleasantly surprised to see Matisse’s Red Room there. And the building itself, having once been a palace, was also a work of art. Some of the rooms were enormous, and one of them even had the imperial throne.

By the time I got out, I was tired and hungry and sore and it was dark, and I faced the daunting task of walking all the way back to my host’s apartment. I did it the same way I had come: one step at a time. (It was either that or try to take public transportation, and for that I might have had to… talk to people.)

Although I was extremely worn out, I decided to visit so-called John Lennon Street, tucked away in a courtyard near Uprising Square.

John Lennon Street

It was the perfect ending to a perfect day.


7 comments

#1 by Kate: Tue Mar 01, 2011 18:56 (UTC -5)

It’s funny that the restaurant you chose was called Nutcracker. ;)

I remember the same thing about ordering food in the US – even though I knew English somehow, communicating with employees was usually a challenge. But it felt like fun rather than humiliation. Maybe in Russia it’s easier to feel humiliated. Sorry for that. I hope at least food made it better. :) Not many places have a combination of good food and reasonable prices. If you drop in to some random place, it might turn out a bad experience.

Speaking English (not to mention other languages) is a weak point of, I guess, overwhelming majority of Russian cafes and restaurants even in such a touristic city as St Petersburg. (I’m afraid of thinking of other cities.) I remember going to a Georgian restaurant on Vasilyevsky island with a couchsurfer and his parents, and they didn’t have even an English menu, and the stuff didn’t speak English, so I translated everything between those who didn’t speak Russian and those who didn’t speak English.

Streets are slippery 3-4 months a year in St Petersburg (we’re having the second cold winter, so I don’t remember about preceding warmer winters). Now the spring is coming, and I’m expecting large puddles of melted snow everywhere. Honestly, I don’t know which one is worse.

#2 by Jordon Kalilich: Tue Mar 01, 2011 22:21 (UTC -5)

I don’t think the problem was the country. I think it was the fact that I could barely say anything in the language. Your English was (and still is) very good, and my Russian wasn’t good at all. I knew that English wasn’t commonly spoken, so I should have been more prepared.

#3 by Jean: Tue Mar 01, 2011 23:14 (UTC -5)

Regardless of how little Russian you spoke, kudos to you for even attempting. The first time I went to Europe, completely alone, I took the easy route and went to Amsterdam, everyone there it seems is bi-lingual. I don’t think Russia is on my short list unless I go with someone who speaks the language. But it is on my bucket list.

#4 by Kate: Wed Mar 02, 2011 07:34 (UTC -5)

@Jordon: the problem was the country. You don’t know any European language, but you can still easily communicate with people in Europe since they speak English. In Russia people just don’t bother, even if it’s Saint Petersburg, which, according to different sources, has from 2 to 5 million of foreign tourists per year.
Instead of refusing the idea of visiting countries with a language barrier, I suggest you to consider the idea of going with a person who doesn’t mind to take responsibility for talking to locals, when you need to find your way, buy something, etc. ;)
@Jean: if you go to St Petersburg, feel free to contact me and I will guide you :) Actually, if you use Couchsurfing and visit only major cities, there shouldn’t be a big problem to go alone, as far as I can see about the couchsurfers I’ve hosted.

#5 by Jordon Kalilich: Wed Mar 02, 2011 18:33 (UTC -5)

I feel that if I’m going around by myself, it should be my responsibility to speak the language of the country I’m in. I’m not comfortable with the idea that everyone should speak my language. Maybe I should have picked a host who could accompany me everywhere, but on the other hand, I got to spend as much time in the museum as I wanted, so that was good too.

#6 by Jean: Wed Mar 02, 2011 19:15 (UTC -5)

I know what you mean. I always feel like the typical ugly American when I travel because of my limited languages but I have found people to be overwhelmingly kind and helpful. I have also realized my best vacations are when I have gone away alone for that very reason you mention. I do what I want when I want and never compromise.

#7 by Kate: Thu Mar 03, 2011 14:44 (UTC -5)

I feel that if I’m going around by myself, it should be my responsibility to speak the language of the country I’m in. I’m not comfortable with the idea that everyone should speak my language.
It is not your language. It’s the English language. de-facto the dominant language in the world. If you were French, or Italian, or Russian, you would have to learn it.
Well, I know what you mean, but you know that it should be one dominant language in the world, and now it’s English. They have to speak it in touristic places, what St Petersburg definitely is.

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