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Sun Aug 21, 2005 19:41 (UTC -5)Oh, another weekend is biting the dust (yummy). And as I sit here, my umpteen-hundredth week without a date, I wonder why I’m in this situation which many would find regrettable. I was pondering things last night, as I am apt to do. I think it’s boiled down to this: there are girls I would certainly go out with, but the one (or maybe two) who impassionate me the most are way out of my league. Compared to her/them, others don’t compare. So any other girl who might strike my fancy just wouldn’t be good enough.
You don’t have to be head over heels to ask a girl out, I’ve been told. But then what’s the point? It would only lead to… a lack of dating. But maybe feelings could be hurt also. So, in short, maybe I’m not seeing anyone because I don’t want to cause any pain. People suffer enough already, so why let a giant weirdo with bad hair add to that? I mean, I’m not feeling particularly depressed today, I’m just being realistic. From what I’ve seen, 99% of relationships — whether a one-night stand or a marriage of 50 years — end badly. The other 1% end in death.
Maybe it’s the insecurity talking. After all, if I could find love, I’m sure I’d have a brighter outlook on life. Go read some scientific journals, I’m sure they’ve said that. In conclusion, I don’t even know why I’m saying this.
Person: I’ve been getting online and acting like made up people. It’s an addiction! How do I make it stop?
I don’t see anything wrong with it, really. It’s funny.
sean: now that you have the new Weezer cd, what do you think of their new stuff compared to their old stuff?
I think their old stuff is better, but I’ll need some more time to listen before I finalize that opinion.
It’s a 4-Block World for one Tom McMahon, who uses 2×2 grids to compare things. Interesting stuff.
3 comments
#1 by casey: Sun Aug 21, 2005 20:18 (UTC -5)
No matter what kind of relationship you go into right now, it will end badly. So just go for whatever you want and live for the moment.
#2 by Alan: Mon Aug 22, 2005 00:43 (UTC -5)
You guys are so funny! It is better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. I was married and divorded and that wasn’t great, but we’re still friends. The second time, I’ve been married 20 years. A relationship depends on what you put into it. (I wish I’d learned that the first time)
Alan.
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#3 by Sean: Mon Aug 22, 2005 16:22 (UTC -5)
i dont agree with casey’s first sentance, but i agree with the second.